ladyvean asked:

Yes, saying no is an option. My point is that it takes both a man and a woman to conceive a child and yet your are only acknowledging the woman's responsibility.

pickupyourguns answered:

And men are held responsible legally and financially after the pregnancy, but we’re talking about before pregnancy. So before pregnancy, it’s her body, it’s her responsibility, and it’s only her decision to make. Again, a man participates, but unless she is raped, the woman is 100% responsible for her decisions leading up to the pregnancy. If she says yes, without duress, knowing pregnancy is a possible consequence, it’s on her. Not to be snarky, but that’s called taking responsibility for your actions.

[ladyvean]

So, you don’t find the man who participated equally in the act of sex to be equally responsible for the creation of a life?

Both parties are responsible for conception.  Women do not get pregnant in a vacuum.

And as a side note, idiocy does not equal snark.