people who habitually try to shame or humiliate others for unhealthy/self-victimizing behavior (that doesnt like… demonstrably threaten others*) aren’t doing it “for [their] own good” and if someone claims they are they’re either lying or dangerously conceited. stop designating yourself as strangers’ therapists just to make yourself feel more powerful & righteous if you’re just looking for an excuse to bully people or if your brand of fully unsolicited “help” is shit that’s like, known to worsen self destructive behavior to a degree that it’s kind of unconscionable for anyone to be promoting it as a good community health strategy
* and even in that case, protecting the potential/actual victims of this behavior should take precedence over finding new ways to call people freaks but you can’t get as many notes doing that
