"sexualizing or fantasizing about real people is bad" is still my favorite tumblr opinion
wait so is it bad or not what’s the discourse
i really shouldnt have to explain to you that being sexually attracted to real life people is normal
What's bad is forcing those real life people to engage in your sexualization. Example being giving them crude fanart of themselves to sign or asking them sexual questions in an effort to validate your own fantasies.
Imagine all you want. But respect boundaries. Bc you would be creeped out if a total stranger gave you naked fanart of yourself and your friend having sex. Or if they asked you about being sexually attracted to a friend and called you homophobic when it made you uncomfortable.
