there’s this ~thing now where the leftosphere takes how much a person enjoys certain sex acts as a benchmark for how feminist they are and like. hmm. no. bad. a cis man can dislike pegging and cunnilingus and also love & respect his girlfriend as an equal. a cis woman can be uncomfortable with being sexually dominant and prefer PIV over oral without being a tradwife doormat. trans people can be comfortable or uncomfortable with their junk or both situationally and it doesn’t mean they’re more or less trans. switching or being verse isn’t inherently more liberated than being an obligate top/bottom/dom/sub. being kinky doesn’t automatically make someone a feminist or a misogynist and neither does being totally vanilla. same with being poly or mono, having lots of sex partners or a few or one or none, being very sexually active or occasionally so or totally celibate. sex isn’t activism and erotic enjoyment isn’t praxis. stop that.
ALTfuuuuuuuuck
