Cultures that endorse modesty and cultures that endorse hypersexualization are the *same* thing. Both define female sexuality by how it relates to the male gaze. In both cases the female body exists as an ornament either to be kept carefully hidden or put on display. Neither is an empowering feminist achievement.
Thank you.
Yes exactly. The point is to make it about what the lady wants, not what you want. “Women should never show cleavage lest someone think they are a slut” and “women should be encouraged to show off their bodies, so long as they show them to me in a way that aligns with my sexual preferences” are equally bad takes









