They thought they were so edgy not giving the Female Changeling a name like "Her species doesn't need one wow so forward thinking, avant garde, so alien" and then they instead made her only distinguishing characteristic her gender, defining her completely from a human perspective.

We love a powerful girlboss or whatever but the female changeling and the Borg Queen were not the way to do that. I'm even more pissed off at the threatening hivemind with no leader suddenly needing a seductive boobs woman to be in charge

y'all are looking at it wrong. they know they dont need genders and stuff, but they also know everyone loves boobs. its a distraction, like a slight of hand trick.

you have you enemy stare at the boobs, even mesmerized by them, while you slaughter billions.

No that's what Garak was doing