Anonymous asked:
No offense but seeing a girl who says she's bi end up with a man is always just kinda... typical
pietriarchy answered:
This argument always tires me out because the odds of easily meeting a man who’s attracted to women versus a woman who is is just generally way higher. (For example if you select both on tinder you get maybe 1 woman for every 30 men if you’re lucky) The dating pool is really skewed in one direction if you’re bi, so of course it happens a lot. (Also some wlw won’t date bi women)
Second of all, if you think that makes me not bi or something more power to you but it won’t uneat the pussy of the past mate
even if the dating pool was completely even like.... u may still "end up" w a man if ur bisexual... cuz thats what... bisexuality is. literally ppl think bi women r supposed 2 b lesbians n if theyre not lesbians (bc theyre BI) then they must just b str8..
“How can she be bisexual if she’s with a man...”
Me, pouring my cup of coffee directly onto your carpet, getting up from my seat, holding your face gently between my hands, speaking directly into your brain.
“Please, shut the FUCK UP.”
reminders for/about bi people this pride season:
- bisexual is not a dirty word, it’s beautiful
- bi women are not watered down lesbians
- bi men are not watered down gay men
- bisexuality is a solid and complete identity
- bisexuality has never excluded trans/nb people
- bi people are not second rate members of the lgbt+ community
Lwaxana Troi, daughter of the Fifth House, holder of the Sacred Chalice of Rixx, heir to the Holy Rings of Betazed, is bi, and too important and fabulous to care what anyone thinks of her.
reblog if you’re bi, support bi people, or just really like swords
begging bi girls to stop performatively hating themselves for their attraction to men…i know it seems like all men are trash but you certainly are not trash for being attracted to them and u absolutely deserve a loving and supportive boyfriend if u want one…u girls deserve to have ur hands held!! u deserve hugs and kisses!!!! men can be good and you, specifically, deserve that from them…ur attraction is not wrong and u will be okay i promise
seeing the lesbians in the notes of this post makes me very happy. shoutout to those of you supporting bi women by supporting their attraction to men! I see you and I’m grateful 💕
reducing the entire variety of the bi experience to 'bi culture is only finding 0.0000001% of the male population attractive and thinking every woman is beautiful' posts every week kind of sets me off not gonna lie
i know a lot of it stems from biphobia but you don't have to justify your attraction men to anyone, and liking men doesn't make you any less of a bisexual and if those posts are really what being bi is like to you then good! but trying to pass it as a universal bisexual experience rubs me the wrong way not to mention it fits into a binary view of what bisexuality is but that's just my two cents
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